When school’s in session, it’s easy for children to stay in touch with their friends. After all, they have plenty of opportunities to see and hang out with them throughout the school day, whether that’s in class, at lunch or during recess. While summer break is one of the most fun times for kids, with the long, lazy days and no homework, it can also be a time where they feel distanced from their friends. The good news is that staying connected can be easy with a little intention. Here are a few simple ways to keep your kids’ friendships strong over summer break:
Keep in Touch With Other Parents
First and foremost, keep in touch with other parents. Swap phone numbers or social media profiles so you have an easy way to reach out. A quick phone call or text message to another parent is usually all it takes to set the fun in motion! When the grown-ups are in touch, it’s easier for the kids to stay connected.
Schedule Regular Phone Calls or Video Calls
When today’s parents were growing up, staying connected to friends usually meant playing outside together. But we’re in a new era of technology where kids can stay connected to friends and see their faces right over the phone. Set up regular phone calls or video calls between your child and their closest friends, even if it’s just once a week. It gives them something to look forward to and an easy way to keep the friendship current.
Phone calls and video calls allow children the time to catch each other up on what they’ve been doing, whether it’s simply relaxing or going on family vacations. Kids these days also talk on the phone while playing video games and watching movies together. This can be especially helpful if your child has a friend who has moved away or is spending some time out of town.
Arrange Play Dates and Group Activities
Nothing replaces spending quality time in person and seeing each other face to face. Whenever you can make it happen, do it! Whether it’s an intimate playdate with your child and just one friend or a full-on get-together with multiple friends, group activities give kids vital time to bond. Think backyard barbecues, a day at the swimming pool, a trip to the movie theater or an afternoon at the park. Some of the best summer break memories come from these special moments with friends.
Send Letters and Handmade Crafts in the Mail
Today’s kids may not know what it’s like to have a pen pal, but this summer, they can certainly learn! Encourage your child to write a letter, draw a picture, make a handmade craft or put together a little care package for a friend. Teach them how to write an address on an envelope and put it in the mailbox, or take them to the post office to learn how to ship a package. Something about receiving a letter or package in the mail with their name on it makes this part of their friendship feel that much more special.
Get Them Involved in a Camp or Summer Program
Summer programs and camps are some of the best ways for kids to stay connected to friends and engaged in learning activities when school is out. Whether it’s a sports camp, an arts program, a science workshop or a community program, these summer activities allow current friendships to grow and new friendships to form. They can also help the transition back to school feel much smoother, since it allows kids to remain accustomed to structure.
Whether school is in session or closed for summer break, your child’s friendships are one of the most important things to nurture. Lake Forrest Prep believes in the importance of friendship, and we encourage our students to create lasting bonds with friends. Learn more about our private school in Orlando here or contact us online.